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I understand how the tone of a conversation can be lost in written form and want to assure my readers that these are not words that come from anger. Some with sensitive sensibilities or snowflakes will most likely be offended by this blog, but since I'm not responsible for anyone's feelings, you have a right to be offended because you choose to be. Women in America today are out of control and I'm calling you out. Don't fret, my next blog I'll lay into weak beta males because YOU a largely to blame for how we got here.
The massage field so far has been an amazing experience. Some elements are much like that of a bar tender. That un objective ear that you offer so people can vent and relax, but it's a double edged sword and something one should understand that when it sounds like a client is looking for feedback they're often only venting and you risk losing their business forever, but if you just listen you'll learn a lot about the human condition or more specifically the female condition. My interactions with people going back to a previous life as a musician was different because that whole scene is all theater, it's superficial and surprisingly a lonely business. It's sad how many impressionable women I've witnessed degrade themselves in terrible ways for anyone who can play guitar and they take pride in it. My interactions with the female species then was different because they wanted me to like them so they were very flattering and agreeable. They always paid for drinks and their credit card had no limit. I was the only married guy in the band and it turned my stomach how quick these college girls would jump at the chance to have unprotected sex with our drummer at the time who went through women like water. You couldn't abuse them enough and they loved it. So empty and misguided yet strangely empowered somehow. It wasn't until about 2015 when they went all blue haired and bat shit crazy.
When some people are nervous they talk nonstop especially when they're female, because they love to talk about themselves, at great and never ending length. Some will get comfortable enough to tell you terrible thing's about themselves. One thing that I've realized is that men in America have become weak and emotional which is against their natural God given design as being's of logic and strength and in their spirit they know something isn't right. Women by design are emotional beings and are always dreaming, pondering, doubting, second guessing, they're insecure, need reassurance and constant attention and validation and in their ego so caught up in the false notion that being more emotional about an opinion or thought no matter how ridiculous somehow gives their opinion more merit. Sure they can ace the written test but a very, very small percentage of them are actually wired to handle a high stress situation or leadership position and "educated" women clearly have a hatred of men that was learned in school. It's why so many self diagnose as bipolar. It's also why I no longer book females. I've realized that they'll say just about anything for attention and after working in a female dominated industry would soon learn how most women will lie, cheat, backstab and manipulate and say just about anything to get their way.
I never really understood how damaged (not all, not all, not all but most) American women actually were until I went into the massage field which is overwhelmingly controlled and operated by women and homosexuals. As much as women complain about men on any level, their behavior hands down is often far worse than any man who they will use as the example to justify their own wrong doing. In business they're cunning and manipulative, they're foul mouthed and use language far worse in the work place than I've ever heard any man use. They're too easily confused and tolerant to wrong doing because true authority and wisdom is not in their nature. They'll say anything to get what they want and call you toxic, aggressive, sexist or a misogynists for calling them out, but somehow have the moral authority to call a man out and correct us seven ways to Sunday. They tend to have a high opinion of themselves and their abilities and in my experience will charge more for their services even if they know they can't deliver. They're strong on Facebook until they're a victim and the female ego is so out of control in America that we are on the brink of societal collapse because they've all but destroyed and removed God and his natural order from civilized society and replaced him with a mothers love. Now, instead of learning to become better wives and mothers, we've tantalized their senses and ego by convincing them to put an education before family and encourage the false notion that they are equal to a man. Their are roles in society that we are designed for regardless of what you were taught in community college and I've realized how useless an educated woman actually is to family and why any normal decent man who is looking to start a family should avoid them completely and especially a slut with an out of wedlock baby.
I'll never forget an experience at one of those very popular Spa chains during the application process, one of the team leads was standing in the lobby talking to the front desk about something I can't remember, but while she was talking was dropping F-bombs like it was no big deal. She had this tooth that stuck straight out of her face in the most obnoxious way and it was borderline traumatizing to get roped into a profanity laced conversation with her. It was impossible not to stare at because she spit when she talked because of it. During session they would bicker in the hallways in passing and you could hear every foul mouthed word. It was drama all day long. When I worked in a predominately male environment we were able to get some work done. When women started flooding the job market back in the 90's companies started offering sensitivity training, we had to watch how we phrased anything we said around them and had to make special accommodations for them. How's that for strength? I can concede that some women can be smart in their own way but a few college credit hours later it rewires them into an almost high functioning, brain dead, barely functional state. Not all but most. Their strength is like that little child that will show you their elbow and tell you to "look at my muscle daddy, isn't it big?" What makes children easier to deal with is you can correct them and tell them "No, that's your elbow silly!" and everyone is better for it. Mom would usually play along and tell them "Wow! That's huge!" playing along encouraging their confusion instead of correcting it. You cannot correct most women anymore without becoming an ism. They're so hopelessly addicted to their cell phones and social media that you can barely have an intelligent conversation with many of them and have their full attention without their eyes glancing at their phones, constantly living their lives out in real time on Facebook because it's all about attention and getting looked at. So educated that you can no longer tell many of them anything because they love to argue and I've heard this from the horses mouth directly many, many, many, many times. It's almost comical how once they fall under the glow of that little mind control device in their pocket they stand there slack jawed and lights completely out. Are you familiar with Harlow's Monkey's? Yep.
Being only one of the three male therapists at this location I never really mingled with the staff there. Whenever I was one on one with some of them they would tell me terrible things about themselves and have had several instances where a female therapist would admit to being a sex worker/stripper on the side or crushing hard on a client and would share that it was all they could do to control themselves during session with them. They would talk about it openly in front of other female therapists who would laugh and joke about it like it was no big deal but if it were a male therapist, he would be reported and fired usually, unless he could maintain a client retention rate of 60% or higher. Any therapist who sexualizes their trade in any way should lose their license. I usually kept busy cleaning the rooms since they had an odor and no one else was doing it. The lady that owned the place gave every female on staff a special title and additional responsibilities that didn't come with a pay raise and now everyone was too important to do any of the more menial tasks. If we made it through the week without someone bursting into tears it was a miracle. Men weren't promoted at this place beyond anything other than their job description. You want to talk about being sexist or discriminating? Most men knew better than to take a bogus promotion that didn't involve a pay raise but a female? Just puff up that ego and make them feel special and they'll rat out their best friend for a pat on the head.
As I was taking my lunch out of my locker one day when one of the other team leads, a very thin single parent mother (what I call a slut or a used car) with a terrible attitude and single because of it arrived. She was supposed to help out at shift change to get the rooms ready but was late that day then comes into the lounge and yells "who emptied the F@%king steamer?" loud enough to be heard in the front of the building. I started to tell her that I helped set up some rooms for her but she cut me off. She put her finger in my face and told me "next time you empty this mother f@%ker, restock it! It's not my job to do it!" My first instinct when someone does that is to break it off and ram it down their throat. I took the high road and let management know what happened which they easily confirmed from the camera footage in back and I let them know what they could expect if she did it again. I don't care who you are, never put your finger in my face. A man should never hit a lady, but this was no lady and nothing humbles an out of control, spoiled, childish bitch like this than the full thunder of an opened handed bitch slap. Fortunately the owner reigned in the leash on her so I didn't have to do it for her.
There was a guy with a man bun. Soft, weak, emotional and swished when he walked. These are the kind of men that women in this business like to hire because they're spineless and weak, easy to control and manipulate because they have the nature and mindset of a female. At first you would swear he was a gay man but he clearly loved the ladies since when he changed his shift to mine I would personally witness him walking his female clients out after session, arm slung low around the waist and whispering something in their ear that made them giggle and give them a peck on the cheek. This is NOT appropriate and he should have been reprimanded. I spoke to the owner about what I witnessed and she didn't see the problem since no one lodged a complaint. She said that he's really a nice guy and he has credentials and can fill a schedule. Can you believe that? It's disappointing that the owner (a female) wouldn't address an issue like this considering the nature of it and lose total control of the situation because she did nothing about it. Eventually he assaulted someone then had to fire him anyway. Before you point out that it's always usually a guy that get's busted doing this, let me point out that it's because women are far more cunning, promiscuous and are much more likely to get away with it. But they're also spiteful and calculating and historically have a reputation for making false claims against men of unwanted sexual advances and was responsible for the deaths of many innocent men who were lynched throughout history because of it and who do they blame? Men of course, because it goes back to being strong until they're a victim and are never responsible or held accountable for any bad decisions they make. They rarely get reported because as a massage therapist hustling gratuity at a franchise, they've become hustlers, sex dealers and wear that popular yoga pants and thong combo to lure and manipulate dumb weak horny men with money and mommy issues into becoming sex addicts to get extra cash out of their male victims. They only get busted when they proposition an undercover officer. No one talks about it because it doesn't fit that narrative of how men are the evil aggressor but I can assure you that women are far more predatory than anyone, even the gay community.
The last spa I worked at before I opened my own business was servicing masturbators. At first it seemed like the perfect place to work. The money was great and I was up to $22 an hour within my first two years there. Once I proved I was what they call a "money maker" in the business which means you can fill a schedule and sell a membership the owner pulled me into her office to discuss some clients she wanted to place on my schedule. Mike the masturbator is what she nicked named just one of the many other people she kept on a list that was allowed to masturbate during session, then leave the mess behind for us to clean up. I refused to take this mans appointment and the owner kept insisting that I was over reacting, it was no big deal and she had a degree so I should just trust her. The owner would station a therapist outside the bathroom door so certain clients could have sex then book them in the room next to her office so she could listen through the wall to make sure things didn't get out of control. After flat out refusing to book these creeps, she cut my pay $2 an hour then lied and said she didn't. Then she says she did, but reserved the right to do so without notice and now top dollar is only $20. When she hired a therapist who would book these creeps, started her at $21 an hour. She became increasingly more frustrated with me about my refusal to book her special gay clients who insisted on a male therapist so she cut my hours, would suddenly put me on call with less than an hours notice to drive 45 minutes to get there then wanted to write me up for not being available enough. She eventually took me off the schedule after a female therapist grabbed my testicles a few times during a practical and I reported her. Days go by and she wasn't returning any calls or texts or emails. I've talked to a lawyer about this and I had a case, but it would be expensive and I had to put down a large cash retainer out of pocket to start. Every therapist on staff was fully knowledgeable about what was going on in those rooms and they thought it was funny that I was making a "big deal" about it. Most females who hear my story about my many experiences as soon as they hear that it involves gay predators each time would say "oh no, you didn't discriminate against them did you?" which is proof that most modern "educated" women lack reason and logic and are so easily confused by the difference between right and wrong, they can no longer tell the difference, but they have a degree. The last time I sat in her office with her, she was trying to explain to me, how she had a degree and I should trust her judgement. I asked "can we agree that there is some risk here and It's me being put behind the 8 ball?" She huffed and shifted in her chair then say's "I will not agree to anything!" She was intentionally willing to crash the car to prove that she didn't have to listen to a man. Men need to wake up and help lead our women back out of the darkness of their imaginations because they need us.
and America is going to hell in a hand basket because of it. What's interesting is, despite all of this female strength and radical feminist lesbian empowerment bullshit, all any man has to do to boot them back to the kitchen is cut in line, put on lipstick and tell them to call you ma'am and they'll step aside. They made it that way too, but of course it's not their fault! It never is!
It's only with perfect love that I share this message of uncomfortable truth. Everyday the role of men in society is becoming increasingly more diminished and undervalued while scholars and intellectuals are flipping our roles as designed by God to become warped and twisted into something that we are not. We have to get back to a place of logic and common sense but we need to get back into our own lanes and swallow some pride ladies because you were designed for making babies and raising families not ruling nations, just ask the Mayans. I've heard people say "to change the world, all you have to do is upset a mother". I would argue that, this false notion is how we got here. Happy wife, happy life? Just because something rhymes, doesn't mean there's any truth in it. Put her fat behind on the couch for a few week's if she need's correcting and if she put's her hand's on you fella's? Press charges on her. If you can't fix them, get rid of them. You have to accept that in family which is between a man and woman only, that you are to submit to your husband because his role is being the head of his wife. A woman's desire should be that of her husbands. The only solution to this spiritual battle that we are in now to bring our country back to it's former glory is to restore the family and God's natural order which is God in Christ, Christ in man, man over woman, woman and child because only the son is the physical image of the invisible God and those who hate their earthly father shall never know their father in heaven no matter how many degrees you have. Have a great day America!
Sincerely,
Lonnie T. Locke LMT
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